Kytherea1

This creative at DDB Chicago is finding out the hard way how vanilla's react to kinky events. Check it out on Agency Spy, run by Media Bistro: http://www.mediabistro.com/agencyspy/tribal-ddb-gcds-side-project-live-sex-demos_b15106

I was pretty impressed with the comments from his peers. I'm glad they were voicing their support.

Kiss kiss
K

I'm going through a strange time right now. things aren't good at home, I'm bored with My job and tired of watching My back there. I'm stagnating as a Mistress and I miss having a boy OR girl in My service.

I need to find my own life again. It's My fault because I let it slip away while I snuggled in My newly made comfy nest. I forgot in my complacency that unexpected high winds can blow a nest apart.

My last trip out to Paddles just SUCKED!

I don't write negative stuff often so I figure every now and then it's ok to just spit it out.

K

Tomorrow I'll be a grandmother again. It's all planned. At 10:45 am she will go into surgery and after that, Greyson will make his way into the world. There is another person that play a part in my life and I in his.

Wow.. just wow... the energy of that is just overwhelming.

I am going to Texas in a few weeks when they move into the newly built house, the logic being that she will need more help setting up her home than in the busy operating room and hospital. I'm honoring that but I cannot tell you how it will kill Me not to be there tomorrow.

I'll get through it... many do, but it will be a happy happy day.

kiss kiss
Ky

i hope you're ready for another post from finn[Ky]. The other day i was looking over the archives of Mistress Kytherea's journal and came across one from 2007. 2007 seems like such a long time ago when measured by the electronic, fast paced standards of today. In one particular journal entry, Mistress Kytherea commented how happy She was to have given me the password to Her journal so that i could write too and take up some of the duties of updating folks from Her.

i know this was a bone of contention for Her since this is one thing She likes to do. Write. But as i mentioned above, the fast paced world doesn't cut Her much slack. She even admitted recently that Her pace(mosey)had been transformed over time for fear of getting trampled in the City. So it is with both honor and trepidation that i post here.

The honor comes from knowing that Mistress Kytherea has given me a gift and an opportunity to speak freely in a medium that She excels in. It's the challenge of living up to her standards that's a bit overwhelming. Second; its with trepidation that i write knowing She is always editing in Her mind, searching for any hidden meanings to what i say that will bring on further interrogation later.

Today i am a bit sad for two reasons. The first is that TesFest is going on and i can't make it there this year. This is not the first time that i have been unable to attend an event with my Owner. That's the world i live in. Sometimes i can make it and travel and other times i cannot. Together, Mistress Kytherea and i have made the decision to not take risks that could hamper our ability for future meetings. Recently, i have felt like i have "been on the radar" of my wife, and so this plane is parked (if you get my drift).

i enjoy attending events with my Mistress whether it's TesFest, Spanksgiving, Beat Me or just going to Paddles. i think for me, part of the enjoyment is i can relax. i don't have to do anything. i can just be me. My Mistress does everything from planning which seminars we attend, to what we are going to eat, to how we are going to play. And of course all this is done with the demeanor of a southern social butterfly that only adds to my enjoyment. Most of the time.(blush)

So this weekend i am missing out on that, as is my Mistress, which brings me to the second reason i am sad. While i haven't been a proponent of the "family" concept in Mistress Kytherea's and my dynamic, i have been accepting of it admittedly reluctantly)because i realized it would be extremely unfair in a long distance relationship as ours to give-up opportunities for play because of monogamous reasons. andrew was supposed to be the answer.

he was the one who would be able to attend events with Mistress Kytherea (although She is quite capable of garnering the attention of many submissives on Her own) to add an element of safety or if for no other reason than to keep water from overflowing in the bathroom.

However, andrew has disappeared again and seems to have misplaced all of the electronic communication devices he owns. On a personal level i couldn't care less. But my sadness is for my Mistress as i can sense the disappointment that She has over the sudden silence. While She says it's time to move on, She has been careful not to say She has released him. She has a lot of time invested in him and to think that all of that time has been wasted is not a comforting thought.

In a strange way i am also sad for andrew. i would love to be his age and know then what i know now. For someone to hunger for this lifestyle as he supposedly did and have the opportunity to participate in it with an experienced Mistress such as Mistress Kytherea and to walk away from it where others will gladly take his place seems sad to me. i hope he is happy but i fear he may go down the same path that i did and try and create his personalized version of the lifestyle at home and he may become disenchanted with it. my saving grace was that i found Mistress Kytherea, the same person he walked away from.

Thanks for reading.
be well.
finn[Ky]

this is finn[Ky] speaking or otherwise known as ol' lucky. i have most recently earned my college degree after many years of attending night school while running a business and building a house. So this has caused me to take pause and look at where i am and see where i might be headed in the future. My Mistress used to tell this boy how lucky he was to have Her as his Owner. Now, the only time She needs to remind this boy is in the unlikely and rare event he forgets his place. For She has become an important part of my stability.

Early on in our relationship, there wasn't much room for doubt as i would do whatever i could to gain Her attention. The drama was just part of the whole package and more often than not i would get caught up in it. Then after i had been awarded Her Steel, i became lazy not unlike many couples that get married after years of courting. i no longer became consumed by the drama that surrounded Her and shifted my attention to business and continuing education. Slowly we drifted apart and i began to question my value to Her. i viewed drama as a diversion and a nuisance and something that would get in my way of enjoying my time with my Owner. (notice all the "my's).

Mistress Kytherea on the other hand gets a good deal of amusement by stirring the pot and then stepping back and watching the results of Her actions, always with a smile painted on Her face. She has been relentless over the years watching over me ensuring that i remained focused and on track. Surely there were times when She set aside Her desires to allow me to pursue mine. So last Friday, when i marched into that crowded yard to the cheers of 18,000 people and thought of the countless people that had supported my selfish journey to personal development.

As i ponder the possible new challenges ahead,which my Owner will certainly be part of, i am reminded of words that my Mistress had told me at my collaring:"By pushing close the Steel around your neck, you seal your fate".

Yes on that day i sealed my fate as "ol' lucky!

Fabulous weekend. For a week that developed so dismally, my ween ended with a most wonderful Bang! I spent Wednesday, Thursday and Friday with an aweful cold that put in bed for two days. I knoew finn was coming to New York and I was excited to have andrew with us. Andrew disappointed me but I’ll rant about that later. I don’t want to allow him to dampen what was a great end for the week. I woke up Saturday feeling much better. Still coughing and sniffing but at least I no longer felt like the grim reaper was coming for me.

It was up to me whether we would go to Paddles or not. Finn would have just hung out if that’s what I wanted. Once I realized I was really going to be better, I started gearing up for a night at Paddles. I send Michael, owner of Paddles an email asking him if I could light some fire. I let all those boys who constantly write me with notes like, “puhhhhleasseeee Mistress, may I serve you, I’ll do anything, blah, blah, blah?”, that I would be there and of course I didn’t see ONE of them crawling to beg for attention. Look for a presentation coming soon. I am working on one about just this subject.

I spent a great Saturday, getting My toybag together and watching Knotty Boys videos about some rope I wanted to tie. I had some ideas on variations.

I got a mani/pedi and Charles, wonderful man that he is, drove Me into the city so I didn’t have to take the train. I’m still a little unsettled about whether I can walk through Penn Station without the bomb dogs sniffing out My firebag and spending precious hours of My weekend sitting in a little room with no windows explaining, “it’s ok officer, Im just the nice sadistic Mistress next door that likes to set her boy on fire. He likes it! No really, he DOES!” I like to be on the OTHER side of the interrogation scene.

I met finn at the New Yorker, put My stuff up and we went to have dome dinner at the Tick Tock Diner since Lazzara’s Pizza isn’t open on the week. I filled him in that his brother in chans wouldn’t be joining us and we planned out the night.

He popped over to Duane reade to buy some fuel and we left for Paddles. It was also a TES Party so I knew it would be a little crowded between the spanking group and TES members. TES has begun the practice of having a DM at their parties so I spoke to him and we spoke to Michael who was fine with it. No floggers because they have low ceilings and Michael was worried about the sprinklers going off. Understandable so I chose the back dungeon where the floor is cement and the walls are brick. I would like to say that if someone wanted to use the stage and put fire blankets down, floggers would work just fine. Bottoms love it and it’s entertaining for the people watching. The ceilings are high there so no worries about the fire system. I hope that Michael will consider let me or other Fire players do a demo in the future.

I decided to play with finn laying on the table. There was a very intense scene going on in the corner and having been there myself, I didn’t want to blow in there and start lighting My slave on fire and ruin it for them. I decided to wait until it was over and just started quietly tieing some rope on finn and trying out the new harness tie I learned from the Knotty Boys when I was at Beat Me in Saint Louis. They are SO GOOD… and hot too. While watching JD, I experienced the first desire to be the focus of a top that I’ve felt in a LONG LONG time.

As it turned out, the intense scene in the corner was My own precious Jason. He was topping a delicious girl and I enjoyed My tie AND the scene. I finally put finn on the table and put a hood on him even if he doesn’t have much hair to protect… he he From the moment I heard the first WHOOSH of fire light up My lips curled into a smile and it grew and grew from there. I missed the fire flogger but I lived through it. The DM was hovering and talking over to the side during My scene but I got over that too. Just like Pairadox told Me, “If you play with fire, you are going to have a mishap”, I did. The fire climbed over the Kevlar and onto My fingers. I had to use the wet towel to get it out. I saw that happen to Jack in St. Louis and I did it the very same way and kept a cool head about it. That’s where great teachers come into play. I had fun with the flash cotton too and blazed a new trail down his belly. We lit his nipples on fire and that was pretty and his cock too which was entertaining. I soon worked up a fine sweat and made a new discovery, when My hand is on fire, my nail polish handles fire JUST fine. It’s three days later, I lit My hand on fire several times (on purpose of course) and I’m still admiring My pretty pink shiny nails.

We finished up the scene and I had a chance then to hug Jason. I miss him. We talked scene politics for a while and then caught a taxi back to the hotel. I was exhausted. Finn was up early for Charles to pick him up and head to the golf course for the morning. We all met later and went to Newark to Ferry Street so that we could all have a wonderful lunch at the Brazil Grill, a wonderful, reasonably priced Churrascaria with Rodezio service. We dropped finn off to catch his train and headed home.

I had a GREAT weekend which was a great end to what started off as a MISERABLE week. Yay! Thanks finn… you came through yet again….

finn is going to be in town tonight and I've commanded drew's attendance as well. I love having both My slaves on a leash with Me. Oooops... We have misplaced andrews collar and leash so maybe we can take care of that today.

See you latahhhhh....

Kiss kiss
Kytherea

This is finn[Ky] here. My Mistress has encouraged me to post to Her journal as a way to keep it fresh when She doesn't have the time.I don't mind doing this when i have something to contribute and this is one of those times.

i have learned and become much more patient with my Mistress.She came to St Louis to visit and we attended Beat Me in St Louis. Looking back i can tell there are things between my Owner and myself that have changed over time and one of them is the committment of attending. In days gone by, i would have worn Mistress Kytherea slick getting Her to commit one way or another to going or not. As the deadlines approached i normally would have been in Her face to get Her to agree to come.

This year i tried a little different strategy. i waited Her out. i made up my mind not to say another word until She brought it up and if She didn't it was meant to be a sign that She really didn't want to go in the first place. It worked out beautifully.

Last weekend was a great get-away to Spanksgiving in St. Louis. This is My second time to attend Spanksgiving and once again, it was a great time. I look forward to the downtime with finn and also the time I have to just be Myself and the ability to play in a place that it won’t matter how loud things are. The classes are not only fun but also a chance to meet others which is probably the second best reason to attend events of this sort.

I got in early for a change and this year was not signed up to be a DM so the afternoon was ours to catch up and get comfortable with our mini-vacation. We went to a relaxing lunch and then headed to the host hotel to settle in. Once we checked me in we stopped in to the vendor area and I went straight to Miss Martha’s Corset Shop. Check out her site at www.corset1.com. I am rarely turned on by the corsets but this time, one called to Me. It had a halter collar and looked very classy. I originally tried on a bright green one but Ms. Martha and finn convinced Me to change to pretty turquoise brocade. Finn bought it for Me and I think that was so sweet. I must admit, they were right about the color. Don’t you think?

We wandered around for a while and then made reservations to have a one hour photo session on Saturday night with Cruel-Desires. You can find him on Fetlife so take a look at his beautiful photographs.

finn made reservations at our favorite Italian restaurant on “The Hill” and we arrived right on time and I was excited. I’d been looking forward to dinner for months and I was not disappointed. After dinner we headed back to the hotel and both of us fell asleep. I woke up and nudged finn and we got up. It just wouldn’t do to miss a precious night of the dungeon. We wandered around the dungeon for a while and it was pretty crowded and loud. I don’t usually mind loud and since I love to play in front of a crowd but this time, I just wasn’t feeling it so we went over to check out something new. They had a “quiet” dungeon and I loved it. There was open equipment so we had a place to play and the music was a little more sedate. It gave me a chance to slip into that state of mind with leather and steel. finn too had a chance to feel the floggers and I could use the crop. On Friday, I can leave marks on him because they have a chance to heal before Sunday.

We stayed late and then had a snack at their midnight buffet. It was later than that though so I guess we were lucky to get anything. We went back up to the room and fell right asleep.

It was my plan to sleep late on Saturday but the main workshop I wanted to attend was at 9:00 am. I wanted to go to the fire play workshop with Pairadox and his girl. I woke up in plenty of time and after finn got My coffee we headed out. As it turned out, it was the best decision ever because I found My new passion. I am totally “fired” up about fire play. Pairadox was great and there were other Firetops there so after the workshop we were able to experience it. We returned for the more advanced Fire play workshop after that were finn just kept shaking his head when I asked questions. He could see his future looming ahead of him.

After that we grabbed some lunch at the hotel and then headed out to do a little shopping for the photo shoot. The purpose was getting a few pictures that finn can use on his Fetlife and I wanted a few of finn and me. I have lots of pictures of andrew but not of finn. I was excited about the shoot and I had certain things in mind already. Andrew is a camera slut and finn is less so but he really got into the program. We also stopped in to get a manicure. Finn didn’t want to get one so I allowed him to skip it this time and he waited patiently. I’m glad I got the manicure because it showed in a couple of the pictures.

We came back to the hotel and I set out all My clothes for the photo shoot at 8. The plan was to go down to the photo shoot and stop in to the corset shop to make sure it was laced properly and go to the shoot. After that, we would hit the dungeon. I was looking forward to some fire play. Ms. Martha tightened the laces. She asked Me if I could still breathe and although I was huffing a little, I could still breathe so I said I could. She said, “if you can still breathe it isn’t tight enough!” I lost a great huff of air while she pulled it tight. I have to say that at first I was like, “no way I can do this”, but as time went on, I got used to it. I figured if Scarlet could do it, so could I.

We headed over to do the shoot and visited with one of the security guys while we waited. I was curious to interview staff and see what they thought about all the kink and fetish. I bet it’s their favorite. As it turned out, his wife is dominant and they play all the time at home. He said he would love to bring her to an event next year. I hope he does.

The photo shoot went really well and we had a lot of fun. The wardrobe changes we had in mind worked but we were pressed for time. He told us to come back in about 20 min to get the disc. We were waiting for my drink and finn was wondering about the time since we booked an hour when the photographer came out and said we had about 20 more minutes and he was sorry that he forgot we paid for an hour. So we went back and did more shots. It would have been better if the momentum hadn’t been broken but still we had fun and now we have some great pictures.

I think I’m going to mention to the TESFest organizers how successful this photo studio was and I really wish they could get one of the popular fetish photographers to do a workshop on taking fetish photos. Maybe Lokei would do it since he's often in New York and likes to attend TesFest. The key is to keep the price down though.

After the photo’s we went to the dungeon and just watched for a couple of hours. I was dying to play in the fire area but I didn’t have any equipment and the guys were playing with these hot girls and there was no way I was interrupting that. This one girl had legs that never stopped and she was on the cross with her friend. She writhed around like a porn star when he ran the fire down her body. When he lit her pussy on fire, she came so hard she put the fire in his hand out. Then she clamped her legs together while she came and he couldn’t get his hand free, I was laughing so hard and having a good time. There were a couple of girls really squealing and it was bothering finn so we headed to the quiet dungeon to get a little play in. I wanted to work with the new steel ball flogger that finn had made for his toy bag. I’m glad he’s getting that together.

This was going to be a little lighter play night so that there will be no lingering marks. I spent most of the time experimenting with the new flogger. I actually did throw it a few times and it has a hard thump. It’s painful if it wraps at all. Then I just started dragging it around. I think it’s fun to pile it up on his face. You think at first that you cannot breathe but you can and it blots out the light. I let finn play with it on Me and I loved it. After we finished playing, we went back to the other dungeon for a bit and then went to have snacks. After that, we went up to the room and fell asleep.

We had breakfast and did a little more shopping because I wanted to buy some fire toys. Jack sold them to me at a discount which was nice of him. Finn took me to the airport after that. It was a great weekend and of course seeing My slut is always the star of the show. Thanks for a wonderful time finn!

This is andrew's thoughts on TesFest.  I have to admit that watching andrew's face as we walked into the dungeon on Friday night was absolutely priceless.  Being the person to introduce him to the joys of being with so many other like minded people was a rare treat. I'll post some pictures from the room later when I do My write up.


andrew[KY]

My TesFest 09 Experience.

TesFest to me can be summed up in one word: Amazing. The anticipation
leading up to it was intense, I had heard so many great things about
it from my Mistress, and it lived up to the hype in every way
possible. Outside of Paddles, magazines, and videos I had never seen
people dressed in full fetish gear, or latex, or elaborate costumes,
or nothing at all, at the event it was everywhere. From the second I
walked into the hotel the only people who weren’t in the lifestyle
were the hotel staff members (not that I know of anyway), and it
stayed that way the entire time, and even they looked like they were
enjoying themselves.

Everywhere I looked there were Mistresses, Masters
and their slaves dressed to the nines. One added bonus, which got me
into some trouble, were the amount of beautiful women who were walking
around barefoot or in sandals because as a foot lover it was hard to keep my
eyes off the floor.  my Mistress didn’t quite share my enthusiasm
(Although I stared at her wonderful feet and perfectly painted nails
more than once).

Attending the classes and seminars at the event was like being
enrolled in a BDSM college, and I loved every second of it. There were
classes on how to communicate with your owner, how to properly tie
people up, and everything in between. There was so much to do that we
actually missed a few things because we had to take a break to eat (My
Mistress and I had the Mexican buffet, which I liked…a lot).

The highlight of my trip was the dungeon at the end of the
night. Walking in, I knew that I was going to be hurt by my Mistress
for infractions listed elsewhere on her blog, but I was still excited.
My trip to the dungeon consisted of being tied to a spanking bench (I
LOVE to be bound to the point where I can’t move) and spanked to tears
with clothespins all over my balls, and wearing a pair of nipple
clamps which my Mistress ripped off me when my nipples turned a dark
grey. Another part of my dungeon trip which I liked a lot was when my
Mistress had me balance a thin wooden paddle on my head while I was
tied to the bench, and again later while I was standing in position with the
clamps on. That was new trick for me, but I did manage to keep it balanced
the entire time. Dropping it really wasn’t an option.

On a lighter note when we got back to the hotel room my Mistress made
the toilet overflow, she tried to flush it a second time too quickly,
but with my experience as a building engineer (God, I love that title,
almost as much as Slut) I quickly turned the water off before it
flooded the room. The front desk sent a guy up to “fix” it; he came
armed with some medical gloves and a toilet scrubber, so I ended up
doing the work and drying the floor while my Mistress used the
bathroom downstairs.

After we got settled in my Mistress allowed me to
massage and kiss her perfect feet before bed, I wasn’t allowed to lick
them, but just being able to touch them was enough for me.

I had to leave early the next morning and after  making my Mistress her morning
coffee, while I was getting dressed, she said to me “Damn it, your ass
isn’t even red anymore”, so she had me lay over the ottoman and gave
me a quick but hard barehanded spanking before I caught my cab.

I can’t wait until my next event, this was my first and I admit that
I’m hooked now, I got to meet new people, be with my Mistress, and
learn new things. I was relieved that we had the entire hotel and that
there were no people there to judge me or anyone else for the things
I/we like. I feel more relaxed about who I am knowing that there are
enough people in the area who are interested in the lifestyle to fill
a five floor hotel, I don’t feel like I’m the only twenty-three year
old submissive boy in NJ anymore. Which is a very good feeling.